Over lunch

Colleague brought up the problems that she is facing currently. ...

Mother-in-law is sick ... cannot help to take care n cook for her kids.
She will need to leave her kids alone at home ..... have problems settling their dinner as she dont always get to leave office on time.
Need to chip in to pay for the maid that they intend to hire to take care of her mother-in-law.

Her father suspected to be suffering from prostate cancer ... huge medical cost coming?

Apparently, her husband who works in Mal doesnt contribute to the household at all?
And he also doesnt bother to come home every weekend to spend time with the kids and family.

Oh man ...

What is worse ..
To be single ? or
Marrying the wrong man ..