Sunday, November 19, 2006

Complex and Complicated

Humans are really complex and complicated creatures.

There are people whom you know for many years, yet dont know them well, will never go beyond just friends, to the next level of being close friends, no matter how hard you try.

There are also people whom you know only through that short while, yet you can click so well that it seems that you have know them for many years ?

There are people, by the first look, you know you dont like them, even thou they dint do anything ?

Human relationship is so unexplainable eh ? Some people can just click, some cant. Things just happen without any reasons or whatsoever.

So for people, on the first look, you dont like them. Should you just brush them aside ? or you should make an effort to know them better before passing any judgement ?

And is it true that the best of friends - people whom you can trust for life, you know them during school days .. not working life.

It gets more difficult to make friends, whether close or not close when you grow older ?
Not able to have close friends, is it becos when you grow older, your armour to protect yourself gets stronger? You only have urself to blame for that ?

ok . Im just rambling out this suddenly thoughts.

4 comments:

roentgen said...

Couldn't agree more! Some relationships are just too complex and unpredictable... then again, this is what makes them interesting too yah? :P

KickJazz said...

I have a friend whom initially click well but later just found more and more cracks in the friendship

and in the other end of the spectrum I have a friend whom we used to hate each other's guts, but we are now good buddies. Its through the fights that we know what are our hot buttons and what makes us tick.

So in a way, you never know how a friendship will go :)

Charlotte said...

yeah . so i guess "never say never"?
Becos you really never know what will happen

run to live said...

try never die, never try die